My friend Tracey had some further complications, but is finally (we think!) on the mend. She and Aron are still in the hospital, but hope to come home tomorrow or Wednesday. In the meantime, we've been trying to help out Paul by supplying a dinner casserole here and there, and occupying Addison while Paul takes the bigger kids to the hospital to see their mom.
Dylan has really been enjoying having a playmate, although the meetings have not been without their toddler squabbles. So far I'd say it's Addison 2, Dylan 0. With two older siblings she already knows how to get her way. Dylan tends to be surprised when she does something to him, and he starts to cry. I think of this as big brother training for him.
Most of the time they play nicely together. Here they are making some music on the piano (what a great child magnet this piano is!).

While they were coloring, Dylan saw me throw our old scratched up version of Cars away. We purchased a new one, and I didn't see any reason to keep a damaged copy around. It's so scratched we can't even watch it. Well, as you can imagine, Dylan didn't like seeing that go into the garbage one bit. He fished for it for a minute or two before his arm got stuck in the can and I had to retrieve both he and the old movie!

After coloring we headed for the bathtub. I know Paul appreciated picking up a clean and sweet smelling child, and Dylan needed a bath anyway. Addison is quite used to sharing the bath with her older brother or sister, but Dylan was very confused about why someone else was in his tub.

And holy
moly, I just realized how much work two kids are going to be. You have to bring everything you need into the bathroom: pajamas,
onesies, diapers, lotion, butt paste, etc. You can't leave to get it with one child and leave the other behind with a tub full of water, and you'll never get them both to follow you all wrapped up in their towels. So I devised a plan. I'm feeling quite clever that it all went smoothly, but I'm sure parents of two children do this every day! First I took Dylan out,
lotioned him up, diaper, pj's, all done. Then it was Addison's turn. Same order of operation, except she has long hair and needed a blow dry. So I made them both stay in the bathroom with me, and we all took turns having our hair blown!